South African women took to Twitter challenge the advise that they should build their men and belive in his hustle. ‘We are not Bob the builder’, was the anthem they sang
They refuse to take their own tools to build a man and believe in his hustle without assurance that he will, in turn, build them up when he’s made it. So now women are saying that they are tired of being like the tool weidling, Bob.
This began when a twitter user used Kwesta and Priddy Uglys relationship to motivate and encourage women to build their men.
Dee_Kay wrote, ‘Kwesta started dating he’s wife when he was still a nobody
Bontle modisella used to pay for Priddy ugly’s studio when Priddy was still broke
Lesson behind this: ladies build your man and grind & hustle with him, believe in his dreams regardless of his background and his situation’.
Kwesta started dating he's wife when he was still a nobody
Bontle modisella used to pay for Priddy ugly's studio when Priddy was still broke
Lesson behind this:ladies build your man and grind & hustle with him, believe in his dreams regardless of his background and his situation pic.twitter.com/D4hogVB74t
— Dee_Kay (@Its_Khaya_) June 9, 2020
Her advice was not well received as it was followed by men advising women to run away from men who need to be built.
Ladies, run, I repeat run from men who need building. On top of the shit 2020 is throwing, you have to worry about the roofing & plumbing needs of a man you’re ‘building’. Sometimes buying a turn key house is better than buying a fixer upper to renovate.
— Marcus Brutus (@TrustNcube10) June 9, 2020
As a men I say never build a men if his father failed its never your responsibility sisi. Some men are useless ,weak backboned entitled even weak emotionally .Free advice do you my dear
— mpilonkosi (@mpilolife58) June 9, 2020
Many tweeps used Tyler Perry’s movie, Acrimony, to drive their point on why women shouldn’t be Bob the builder to anyone but themselves.
Ever watched Acrimony? pic.twitter.com/K87E56nXTv
— 18th June 🎂 (@Liyabonatwaise) June 9, 2020